Monday, January 31, 2005
That thumping....
that you hear is me pounding my head on my desk.
I've been at work since 7:00(without coffee) working on a presentation about the exciting realm of COBRA and HIPAA regulations. I just got a call for the person who is actually presenting the information and they want to redo the entire format of the presentation. The work that I did for the last three hours - uh yeah - useless.
This isn't even billable work - it's a FAVOR.
So help me God, if someone comes in and asks where the TPS report is - I am hurling the closest object on my desk directly at their face - with the intent of committing serious bodily injury.
The expletives spewing from my mouth right now would make a sailor blush.
Why is today only Monday?
I've been at work since 7:00(without coffee) working on a presentation about the exciting realm of COBRA and HIPAA regulations. I just got a call for the person who is actually presenting the information and they want to redo the entire format of the presentation. The work that I did for the last three hours - uh yeah - useless.
This isn't even billable work - it's a FAVOR.
So help me God, if someone comes in and asks where the TPS report is - I am hurling the closest object on my desk directly at their face - with the intent of committing serious bodily injury.
The expletives spewing from my mouth right now would make a sailor blush.
Why is today only Monday?
How?
CNN.com - Audit: U.S. lost track of $9 billion in Iraq funds - Jan 30, 2005
Look, it's a running joke in my family that I lose my keys all the time. But $9 BILLION dollars? How is that "unaccounted" for?
*shakes head*
Look, it's a running joke in my family that I lose my keys all the time. But $9 BILLION dollars? How is that "unaccounted" for?
*shakes head*
Naked hiccuping relief
I get obnoxiously loud hiccups daily, sometimes two and three times a day. One of these days, I fear that they are going to simply never stop...
I'm already at work and was hoping to finish up a power point presentation before everyone got in this a.m., but I am hiccuping so loudly that I can't concentrate when I read.
My company left this a.m. I am so relieved - I can't wait to get home today and dance naked in the living room. No reason really, other than I can. And well, sometimes that's just reason enough.
Four days until New Orleans. I am so excited. I love that city - it's gross, it's dirty and the debauchery is palpable, but I love the history, the architecture. I love the ghost stories and the food. I love walking as dawn breaks over a city perpetually hung over.
Sweet.
I'm already at work and was hoping to finish up a power point presentation before everyone got in this a.m., but I am hiccuping so loudly that I can't concentrate when I read.
My company left this a.m. I am so relieved - I can't wait to get home today and dance naked in the living room. No reason really, other than I can. And well, sometimes that's just reason enough.
Four days until New Orleans. I am so excited. I love that city - it's gross, it's dirty and the debauchery is palpable, but I love the history, the architecture. I love the ghost stories and the food. I love walking as dawn breaks over a city perpetually hung over.
Sweet.
Sunday, January 30, 2005
ugh.
I sat in traffic an hour and forty five minutes to get to the airport. My flight is now an hour late - meaning I will miss my connection in Atlanta. I'm not happy.
C. is meeting us there (we paid for the ticket. She was going through Charlotte and volunteered to get off the plane and go tomorrow.
So now there's a 300 dollar hotel room in the quarter that we've already paid for that will be empty tonight. I am not in the least bit pleased.
C. is meeting us there (we paid for the ticket. She was going through Charlotte and volunteered to get off the plane and go tomorrow.
So now there's a 300 dollar hotel room in the quarter that we've already paid for that will be empty tonight. I am not in the least bit pleased.
ugh.
I sat in traffic an hour and forty five minutes to get to the airport. My flight is now an hour late - meaning I will miss my connection in Atlanta. I'm not happy.
C. is meeting us there (we paid for the ticket. She was going through Charlotte and volunteered to get off the plane and go tomorrow.
So now there's a 300 dollar hotel room in the quarter that we've already paid for that will be empty tonight. I am not in the least bit pleased.
C. is meeting us there (we paid for the ticket. She was going through Charlotte and volunteered to get off the plane and go tomorrow.
So now there's a 300 dollar hotel room in the quarter that we've already paid for that will be empty tonight. I am not in the least bit pleased.
Conch Republic
Sitting in Key West, drinking a frosty delicious beverage,and thinking my life could be a lot worse...
Yeah, I know - I have to go back to work tomorrow. But today is wading in the crystal water, taking pictures of pelicans and watching sailboats.
I spent most of yesterday at Shark Valley (part of Everglades Nat'l Park) and saw around fifty alligators or so. I miss not being cooped up in an office.
I'm not sure that I can leave this. I have a headhunter call about a job in Texas to return, but I don't know if I am going to return it quite yet.
I am so conflicted. I don't know what sacrifice to make. I need a sign - a way to divine the right path.
Yeah, I know - I have to go back to work tomorrow. But today is wading in the crystal water, taking pictures of pelicans and watching sailboats.
I spent most of yesterday at Shark Valley (part of Everglades Nat'l Park) and saw around fifty alligators or so. I miss not being cooped up in an office.
I'm not sure that I can leave this. I have a headhunter call about a job in Texas to return, but I don't know if I am going to return it quite yet.
I am so conflicted. I don't know what sacrifice to make. I need a sign - a way to divine the right path.
Saturday, January 29, 2005
Lightning bugs in a jar
One of the things I love most about having the wireless DSL is the fact that most of my block is asleep - and I am laying in a chaise lounge on the back patio listening to the crickets hum. The wind is rustling through the bouganvillea, as I curl up and search for the stars. Unfortunately, there is a street lamp in my neighbor's backyard which is incredibly bright, obliterating the hope I had for stargazing. [thinking as an aside - you know I'm a frightenly good shot with a rifle. I was best marks(wo)man in the corp back in the day (I did it for p.e. credit - ROTC and bowling - nice combo eh?). Too bad my bleeding heart doesn't own a gun. It wouldn't be so damn bright if I did].
Before my parents moved to their current house, they lived down a white dirt road in an incredibly small town. We had horse stables in the back (Santa really did bring me a pony one year). I used to go out by the stables in the summer, and lay down in the deep grass watching the heavens, chewing on a piece of straw and hoping to witness a shooting star. Inhaling the scent of hay, I would wait patiently for hours as the lightning bugs pulsed out messages to each other in code. I would catch some and put them and a handful of grass in a mayo jar with holes poked in the lid. With my natural lantern behind me, I would stretch out in the cool grass, viewing the constellations with the same wonder as millions of children before me.
Tonight I can make out the barest remnants of Orion, but the street lamp obscures all but the brightest of the stars. Ashton (my other cat) is curled up at my feet. He doesn't care about the stars.
On the way home tonight it was pouring. An SUV cut me off and I spun out on the highway. Six inches spared me from being shoved under a semi-truck. Sobbing, I pulled off the road trying to remember how to breathe.
Spooned by the night sky, my breathing levels off.
Star light, star bright... first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight.
I wish I had a way of expressing how grateful I am for laughter, for love, for friendship. I hope those near and dear to my heart know how much they are loved. They always have been and always will be.
Before my parents moved to their current house, they lived down a white dirt road in an incredibly small town. We had horse stables in the back (Santa really did bring me a pony one year). I used to go out by the stables in the summer, and lay down in the deep grass watching the heavens, chewing on a piece of straw and hoping to witness a shooting star. Inhaling the scent of hay, I would wait patiently for hours as the lightning bugs pulsed out messages to each other in code. I would catch some and put them and a handful of grass in a mayo jar with holes poked in the lid. With my natural lantern behind me, I would stretch out in the cool grass, viewing the constellations with the same wonder as millions of children before me.
Tonight I can make out the barest remnants of Orion, but the street lamp obscures all but the brightest of the stars. Ashton (my other cat) is curled up at my feet. He doesn't care about the stars.
On the way home tonight it was pouring. An SUV cut me off and I spun out on the highway. Six inches spared me from being shoved under a semi-truck. Sobbing, I pulled off the road trying to remember how to breathe.
Spooned by the night sky, my breathing levels off.
Star light, star bright... first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight.
I wish I had a way of expressing how grateful I am for laughter, for love, for friendship. I hope those near and dear to my heart know how much they are loved. They always have been and always will be.
Friday, January 28, 2005
Tied to a red balloon
The sky is rumbling and dark, and the rain is coming down in sheets. The downpour has muddled the ocean so it appears that there is just a continuous column of grey water in front of the windows.
In college, there was a small park about halfway between campus and my apartment. It was pretty quiet there most of the time, aside from the occasional jogger or someone walking their dog. I used to run there a lot in the early mornings - the euphoria of exertion a pseudo-replacement for sexual release.
When feeling contemplative, I would simply walk in the rain. Clothes plastered to me, and hair dripping - I would mull over my life. The solitude of the rain was relaxing, as each drop ran over my skin, I felt a bit of the unhappiness subside. It was the closest I have felt to absolution.
In a lot of ways I've had a difficult time living my life for me. I used to feel like it was a personal failing if a relationship didn't work out or if a friendship soured or drifted away. I stayed when I should have left. I returned again and again to emptiness.
I refused to acknowledge the yearning for what made me happy. I spoke up too late, too quietly - or often not at all about the things that should have been voiced. I settled. Again and again, I settled for a life of mediocracy instead of giving into the desires harbored in my heart. I quieted the passion coursing through my soul and lived a life of subtle melancholy.
Like anyone, I have regrets. Deep regrets that make my soul feel torn asunder when they are revisited. But nestled among them are bittersweet memories that still make me smile. Perhaps that makes the regrets more poignant... more tangible.
I wish I could go for a walk outside right now. I need to feel the caress of the water.
In college, there was a small park about halfway between campus and my apartment. It was pretty quiet there most of the time, aside from the occasional jogger or someone walking their dog. I used to run there a lot in the early mornings - the euphoria of exertion a pseudo-replacement for sexual release.
When feeling contemplative, I would simply walk in the rain. Clothes plastered to me, and hair dripping - I would mull over my life. The solitude of the rain was relaxing, as each drop ran over my skin, I felt a bit of the unhappiness subside. It was the closest I have felt to absolution.
In a lot of ways I've had a difficult time living my life for me. I used to feel like it was a personal failing if a relationship didn't work out or if a friendship soured or drifted away. I stayed when I should have left. I returned again and again to emptiness.
I refused to acknowledge the yearning for what made me happy. I spoke up too late, too quietly - or often not at all about the things that should have been voiced. I settled. Again and again, I settled for a life of mediocracy instead of giving into the desires harbored in my heart. I quieted the passion coursing through my soul and lived a life of subtle melancholy.
Like anyone, I have regrets. Deep regrets that make my soul feel torn asunder when they are revisited. But nestled among them are bittersweet memories that still make me smile. Perhaps that makes the regrets more poignant... more tangible.
I wish I could go for a walk outside right now. I need to feel the caress of the water.
Thursday, January 27, 2005
Why?
http://www.cnn.com/2005/TECH/ptech/01/26/moan.tones.reut/index.html
Look, I've um seen Jenna - all of her. She was pretty hot at one time. But I believe it's safe to say she's been rode hard and put away wet.
Why would you want this on your phone?
Look, I've um seen Jenna - all of her. She was pretty hot at one time. But I believe it's safe to say she's been rode hard and put away wet.
Why would you want this on your phone?
traffic
I am stuck in the world's largest traffic jam, and am actually surfing on my blackberry because I am that bored. I hate it here..
Spam
I am so irritated with the spam filtering software they installed at work. Everytime someone puts 'document' in the text of an email it gets kicked into the "spam" file. Numbnuts - I draft documents, I review documents, I am attaching a document. I wish my life was as exciting as the spam filter thinks it is.
And of course, talk of spam makes me think of Monty Python, which makes me think of John Cleese - which made me think of the dead parrot skit
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It's not pinin,' it's passed on! This parrot is no more! It has ceased to be! It's expired and gone to meet its maker! This is a late parrot! It's a stiff! Bereft of life, it rests in peace! If you hadn't nailed him to the perch he would be pushing up the daisies! Its metabolical processes are of interest only to historians! It's hopped the twig! It's shuffled off this mortal coil! It's run down the curtain and joined the choir invisible! This.... is an EX-PARROT!
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Add that to the fact that I have a song stuck in my head... that I can't get rid of, you can see what a productive day I've had today.
Don't waste your time on me, you're already
The voice inside my head
I miss you, I miss you
And of course, talk of spam makes me think of Monty Python, which makes me think of John Cleese - which made me think of the dead parrot skit
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It's not pinin,' it's passed on! This parrot is no more! It has ceased to be! It's expired and gone to meet its maker! This is a late parrot! It's a stiff! Bereft of life, it rests in peace! If you hadn't nailed him to the perch he would be pushing up the daisies! Its metabolical processes are of interest only to historians! It's hopped the twig! It's shuffled off this mortal coil! It's run down the curtain and joined the choir invisible! This.... is an EX-PARROT!
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Add that to the fact that I have a song stuck in my head... that I can't get rid of, you can see what a productive day I've had today.
Don't waste your time on me, you're already
The voice inside my head
I miss you, I miss you
A dreaded sunny day
As a child, I aspired to grow up and be a princess or a mermaid. Unfortunately, it's not very easy to get your foot in the door for either of these career options.
I didn't finish my last two years of high school. I started college full time only a month after I turned 16 with only the vaguest idea about what I wanted to do when I "grew up." At that time I wanted to be a mathematician- as math to me was the most universal of languages. I craved the order, logic and intrigue of working out complex mathematical formulas. But then, I learned there was chaos even within the safe confines of a world of numbers. O.k. that and I missed over three straight weeks of advanced calculus and was never able to catch up.
As an alternative - I wanted to be an actress. I had been in a number of small productions and enjoyed nothing more than being on stage. I have a 'photographic memory' (unfortunately rarely for things that are important) and was able to memorize lines almost immediately.
I went to a public university, but to a special 'highschool' subset of the school which recruited roughly 200 students a year from the state (100 male, 100 female). For obvious liability reasons (400 kids aged 13-17 living in a dorm full time on a college campus), we were extremely restricted from normal college life, but we attended regular university classes (with the exception of math which was a faster paced class for us). We were allowed home only one weekend a month - and it was incredibly stressful and grueling.
I aced honors bio and the bio and chem labs. I did exceptionally well in composition and literature. But god did I suck at honors chem. I just didn't get it. I just couldn't understand things on a molecular level. My mind just didn't work that way.
So goodbye dreams of becoming a doctor. I didn't fit in there. I transferred schools after a year, essentially dropping out of high school. I had 34 college credits and a decent g.p.a. but I didn't have a high school diploma. I was dating someone a year ahead of me in the program who transferred to a small school about an hour and a half from my parent's house that I had never heard of. They had a summer program which allowed me to start school without a diploma.
When I started there, I was just turning 17, and had no idea what I wanted to do. I literally picked up the course catalogue and flipped through it and randomly stuck my finger in it. Whatever I 'landed' on is what I picked. Business management - o.k. that's what I'll do.
I was there only from June '96 until I graduated in Aug. '98. And even then, I took summer class in '97 in San Antonio. I finished all my graduation requirements before my 19th birthday. It seems like I was there so much longer than I was though...
So, I had a college degree, but no one would bother giving me interviews because I was so young. I enrolled in graduate school - simply because I had nothing else to really do.
I remember on graduation day everyone was going out to a bar to celebrate. I still wasn't old enough to drink. I had a masters degree and couldn't even buy champagne.
I moved to Florida two months later for law school, because I got a full scholarship and to be honest I still didn't have a job. Three more years of school seemed like a good idea.
Fast forward now to about four years later. Most of the time I like what I do. Most of the time I find it interesting. I'm in a funk right now, but I think that's more for personal rather than professional unhappiness.
Part of me is still waiting for direction. Part of me still doesn't know what I want to do when I grow up.
Is Princess still a valid option? If so, I'd like to request a transfer to a kingdom closer to my family please.
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[And for the record (no pun intended), yes, I realize the inherent contradiction in this title].
I didn't finish my last two years of high school. I started college full time only a month after I turned 16 with only the vaguest idea about what I wanted to do when I "grew up." At that time I wanted to be a mathematician- as math to me was the most universal of languages. I craved the order, logic and intrigue of working out complex mathematical formulas. But then, I learned there was chaos even within the safe confines of a world of numbers. O.k. that and I missed over three straight weeks of advanced calculus and was never able to catch up.
As an alternative - I wanted to be an actress. I had been in a number of small productions and enjoyed nothing more than being on stage. I have a 'photographic memory' (unfortunately rarely for things that are important) and was able to memorize lines almost immediately.
I went to a public university, but to a special 'highschool' subset of the school which recruited roughly 200 students a year from the state (100 male, 100 female). For obvious liability reasons (400 kids aged 13-17 living in a dorm full time on a college campus), we were extremely restricted from normal college life, but we attended regular university classes (with the exception of math which was a faster paced class for us). We were allowed home only one weekend a month - and it was incredibly stressful and grueling.
I aced honors bio and the bio and chem labs. I did exceptionally well in composition and literature. But god did I suck at honors chem. I just didn't get it. I just couldn't understand things on a molecular level. My mind just didn't work that way.
So goodbye dreams of becoming a doctor. I didn't fit in there. I transferred schools after a year, essentially dropping out of high school. I had 34 college credits and a decent g.p.a. but I didn't have a high school diploma. I was dating someone a year ahead of me in the program who transferred to a small school about an hour and a half from my parent's house that I had never heard of. They had a summer program which allowed me to start school without a diploma.
When I started there, I was just turning 17, and had no idea what I wanted to do. I literally picked up the course catalogue and flipped through it and randomly stuck my finger in it. Whatever I 'landed' on is what I picked. Business management - o.k. that's what I'll do.
I was there only from June '96 until I graduated in Aug. '98. And even then, I took summer class in '97 in San Antonio. I finished all my graduation requirements before my 19th birthday. It seems like I was there so much longer than I was though...
So, I had a college degree, but no one would bother giving me interviews because I was so young. I enrolled in graduate school - simply because I had nothing else to really do.
I remember on graduation day everyone was going out to a bar to celebrate. I still wasn't old enough to drink. I had a masters degree and couldn't even buy champagne.
I moved to Florida two months later for law school, because I got a full scholarship and to be honest I still didn't have a job. Three more years of school seemed like a good idea.
Fast forward now to about four years later. Most of the time I like what I do. Most of the time I find it interesting. I'm in a funk right now, but I think that's more for personal rather than professional unhappiness.
Part of me is still waiting for direction. Part of me still doesn't know what I want to do when I grow up.
Is Princess still a valid option? If so, I'd like to request a transfer to a kingdom closer to my family please.
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[And for the record (no pun intended), yes, I realize the inherent contradiction in this title].
So tired.
Last night, I could have actually slept comfortably all through the night. I was so exhausted.
But I'm having guests in from out of state this weekend, and if there's one thing I am - it's anal retentive about cleaning when guests are coming. My house is generally clean, just cluttered. I just have too much stuff to fit in my tiny little house.
They were supposed to be here tomorrow. I called yesterday a.m. to confirm their itinerary, and didn't hear back. Finally on my drive home yesterday at around 7:30, I get a call - they were so excited about coming that they are going to be here this a.m. I wasn't planning on doing most of the cleaning until tonight.
Um, what the hell?
So I was up almost all night long cleaning. I fell asleep this morning in a pile of clean laundry that I was folding on the couch.
I would never ever do this to someone. EVER. It's just rude. I wouldn't even come over unannounced to my parents' house.
I finally said screw it and drove to work. On the way to work they called and said they're going to drop off their stuff at the house and then drive to spend the night with some friends who live about an hour and a half away.
I left a key under the front mat for them. I hope that I remembered to put the whips and chains away....
C'est la vie.
A week from now I will be on a plane headed to Mardi Gras. None of this will matter.
But I'm having guests in from out of state this weekend, and if there's one thing I am - it's anal retentive about cleaning when guests are coming. My house is generally clean, just cluttered. I just have too much stuff to fit in my tiny little house.
They were supposed to be here tomorrow. I called yesterday a.m. to confirm their itinerary, and didn't hear back. Finally on my drive home yesterday at around 7:30, I get a call - they were so excited about coming that they are going to be here this a.m. I wasn't planning on doing most of the cleaning until tonight.
Um, what the hell?
So I was up almost all night long cleaning. I fell asleep this morning in a pile of clean laundry that I was folding on the couch.
I would never ever do this to someone. EVER. It's just rude. I wouldn't even come over unannounced to my parents' house.
I finally said screw it and drove to work. On the way to work they called and said they're going to drop off their stuff at the house and then drive to spend the night with some friends who live about an hour and a half away.
I left a key under the front mat for them. I hope that I remembered to put the whips and chains away....
C'est la vie.
A week from now I will be on a plane headed to Mardi Gras. None of this will matter.
Wednesday, January 26, 2005
Ugh.
I just got out of a two hour meeting at work with my boss and a group of four investment advisors that are potential referral sources of business. When I was speaking, all of them were watching me intently. The irritating part, they weren't watching my face - at all. In seventh grade when my friends were sporting new training bras - I was already spilling out of a D cup. I was used to merciless teasing and bra strap popping. I was used to carrying on conversations with people who responded solely to my breasts. I was used to boys "accidentally" bumping into me in the hallway.
Look, don't get me wrong, it's flattering at times for a man to obviously be interested in the "girls" (sadly, I married an ass man - who wouldn't care if they existed or not - so sometimes it's nice to be 'appreciated'). But in a professional environment, I expect to be treated a certain way - and that does not include OBVIOUS oogling of the tatas.
My MBA and JD were both obtained with honors. I've worked on multi-million dollar deals in an extremely technical specialized field of law- but none of that matters. The entire time I'm speaking about my practice and prattling on about fiduciary duties they're imagining me in the sack.
As we sat around making small talk for the elevator, one of them said how great it was to be somewhere where you could show so much skin during January on the beach. He then purred - you must be very good at what you do.
You bet your ass I am. I'm good at everything I do.
Standing there with a knot in my stomach - I was so skeeved out. Nothing is nastier than knowing you're going to be masturbatory fodder for someone who you find repulsive.
Ewwww. And they were all old enough to be my father.
*creepy shiver*
must think happy thoughts. must think happy thoughts. must think happy thoughts.
Look, don't get me wrong, it's flattering at times for a man to obviously be interested in the "girls" (sadly, I married an ass man - who wouldn't care if they existed or not - so sometimes it's nice to be 'appreciated'). But in a professional environment, I expect to be treated a certain way - and that does not include OBVIOUS oogling of the tatas.
My MBA and JD were both obtained with honors. I've worked on multi-million dollar deals in an extremely technical specialized field of law- but none of that matters. The entire time I'm speaking about my practice and prattling on about fiduciary duties they're imagining me in the sack.
As we sat around making small talk for the elevator, one of them said how great it was to be somewhere where you could show so much skin during January on the beach. He then purred - you must be very good at what you do.
You bet your ass I am. I'm good at everything I do.
Standing there with a knot in my stomach - I was so skeeved out. Nothing is nastier than knowing you're going to be masturbatory fodder for someone who you find repulsive.
Ewwww. And they were all old enough to be my father.
*creepy shiver*
must think happy thoughts. must think happy thoughts. must think happy thoughts.
Flashbacks
When I was born, my hair was ebony hued and incredibly thick. After they shaved it for the brain surgery when I was two months old it came back in (eventually) a deep red. As I grew older, it got lighter, turning a golden copper with strawberry blonde highlights in the summer. It was neither straight nor curly - just sort of a tousled mess.
During my freshman year of high school I decided to lighten it, and one of my best friends and I dyed our hair "blonde" at about three in the morning. It was horrible. Absolutely horrific. My grandmother was livid and had it fixed, and they made it a deep chocolate shade. It was pretty but as pale as I am it was way too sullen. They ended up cutting my waist length hair off into an incredibly short bob because the dye had damaged my hair so badly. I remember I did it in the middle of the week, and they kept counting me absent at school because no one recognized me. Since I had the giant scar in my hairline, I couldn't part a bob the way everyone else did, or have bangs - so it was an odd haircut for me.
After that I pretty much left it alone until I started college. Somehow I decided it would be a good idea to dye it red - again at about three in the morning. Bad move. It was supposed to be close to my natural color - but it ended up maroon - almost purple. It was supposed to be temporary - but I couldn't get it out of my hair. So I did what any logical 16 year old going through a 'punk' phase would do and dyed it bright lime green. Since I lived next to the music & arts dorm I don't think anyone even noticed. After about a week, I was tired of it and switched to some cinnamon honey color.
Although I had a brief stint at about 18 with platinum blonde (so funny because I don't even recognize myself in the pictures), I've always been partial to my hair being red. When I got tired of being referred to as "Scully" (personally I never saw the resemblance, but apparently everyone else in the free world did - which led to some pretty nice perks when X-files was popular) I started growing it out. I chopped it back off in law school - and soon someone would walk by and say - "has anyone ever told you..." I would just cut them off and say yes. Yes they have. and keep walking.
I've been growing it out lately for Locks of Love - a foundation which makes hair pieces for underprivileged children. http://www.locksoflove.org/. Thankfully it grows fast, and I only need a few more inches before I can chop it off. Long hair is a pain to deal with - especially when it's as thick and wavy as mine is. I hotrolled it today (for the first time in YEARS) and it's so bouncy and shiny I feel like I should be in an 80s shampoo commercial with it cascading down my back to my Jordache jeans.
I feel very texasbeautyqueenesque today. Good hair days are the best.
During my freshman year of high school I decided to lighten it, and one of my best friends and I dyed our hair "blonde" at about three in the morning. It was horrible. Absolutely horrific. My grandmother was livid and had it fixed, and they made it a deep chocolate shade. It was pretty but as pale as I am it was way too sullen. They ended up cutting my waist length hair off into an incredibly short bob because the dye had damaged my hair so badly. I remember I did it in the middle of the week, and they kept counting me absent at school because no one recognized me. Since I had the giant scar in my hairline, I couldn't part a bob the way everyone else did, or have bangs - so it was an odd haircut for me.
After that I pretty much left it alone until I started college. Somehow I decided it would be a good idea to dye it red - again at about three in the morning. Bad move. It was supposed to be close to my natural color - but it ended up maroon - almost purple. It was supposed to be temporary - but I couldn't get it out of my hair. So I did what any logical 16 year old going through a 'punk' phase would do and dyed it bright lime green. Since I lived next to the music & arts dorm I don't think anyone even noticed. After about a week, I was tired of it and switched to some cinnamon honey color.
Although I had a brief stint at about 18 with platinum blonde (so funny because I don't even recognize myself in the pictures), I've always been partial to my hair being red. When I got tired of being referred to as "Scully" (personally I never saw the resemblance, but apparently everyone else in the free world did - which led to some pretty nice perks when X-files was popular) I started growing it out. I chopped it back off in law school - and soon someone would walk by and say - "has anyone ever told you..." I would just cut them off and say yes. Yes they have. and keep walking.
I've been growing it out lately for Locks of Love - a foundation which makes hair pieces for underprivileged children. http://www.locksoflove.org/. Thankfully it grows fast, and I only need a few more inches before I can chop it off. Long hair is a pain to deal with - especially when it's as thick and wavy as mine is. I hotrolled it today (for the first time in YEARS) and it's so bouncy and shiny I feel like I should be in an 80s shampoo commercial with it cascading down my back to my Jordache jeans.
I feel very texasbeautyqueenesque today. Good hair days are the best.
Tuesday, January 25, 2005
Warm and sweet
I absolutely adore hot cocoa. I love the warm sweetness rolling over my lips - spilling onto my tongue. I love the warmth that seeps through my entire body when I swallow. I love all variations of it -sweet, rich and creamy - heady, dark and strong - tinged with cinnamon - or with a dollop of whipped cream - I adore it. It brings me such happy memories. Moments wrapped in a woolen scarf yelling at a football game, watching icicles melt off my grandmother's front porch, snuggling into the couch in my first apartment, so many wonderfully pleasant memories. It's pure bliss. I never thought I would say this, but I miss the cold. I miss the exhiliration of a shot of cold air in my lungs.
Today, the weather's warming back up. I'm wearing a fitted cashmere turtleneck, a plaid woolen school-girl skirt that hits right above the knee, and black leather boots. This is my last touch of "winter" for awhile. Sadly, I have the air conditioning in my office on to make this comfortable to wear.
Today, the weather's warming back up. I'm wearing a fitted cashmere turtleneck, a plaid woolen school-girl skirt that hits right above the knee, and black leather boots. This is my last touch of "winter" for awhile. Sadly, I have the air conditioning in my office on to make this comfortable to wear.
A new low
It was colder yesterday here than it has been in FORTY-FIVE years. People were walking around town with parkas on - the fuzzy hoods covering their ears. All anyone could talk about what how COLD it was.
Jumping jesus on a pogo stick - it was like 40 degrees, and got up to the high 60s. It's not cold.
Although having someone warm to snuggle up to at night would be a nice touch.
Jumping jesus on a pogo stick - it was like 40 degrees, and got up to the high 60s. It's not cold.
Although having someone warm to snuggle up to at night would be a nice touch.
Monday, January 24, 2005
Peace
There are times, which take me off guard - where I am filled with such peace. In these moments, I feel utter amazement at the beauty of the world.
A few minutes ago, I saw a manatee and her calf - slowly - methodically drifting across the bay together.
It is considered (by some) to be an omen of good luck to witness them.
I needed that today.
A few minutes ago, I saw a manatee and her calf - slowly - methodically drifting across the bay together.
It is considered (by some) to be an omen of good luck to witness them.
I needed that today.
Pain management
My mother taught me to write in cursive before other kids had managed to scrawl their names in crayon. By the first day of kindergarden I could count past 1,000. We colored together, and did puzzles and word games, and she made me learn a new word everyday. My mother only has a high school education, but she instilled in me the love of reading as far back as I can remember. She was funny, beautiful and vibrant. And then, she began unravelling. Slowly - as if a part of her soul had been snagged, and then more quickly and violently.
As I mentioned before, my parents divorced when I was just a baby. At about age two my father remarried. My mother was desperately afraid that he would get custody of me (as she was a single parent) so she married - literally within a week - to her boyfriend at the time. It was not a good move on her part. She was so afraid of losing me that she did the only thing that she thought would save "us". To be honest, it was really the beginning of the end.
They fought - horribly. I remember after my brother was born, my stepfather beating her in the face, holding her down and spraying windex in her eyes. I remember cowering over my baby brother protecting him from the shards of glass that exploded off the wall when he threw an ashtray at her. I remember him sugaring her gas tank, breaking into the apartment when we moved out. I remember him kicking in our apartment door and taking my brother (then age 3 or so) away. We were watching Circus of the Stars, and it was so cold that night. We were curled up on the couch beneath a scratchy blue blanket with satin edging.
My mother was struggling to support us, and I know two children on her minimum wage salary must have made it nearly impossible to make ends meet. During their divorce, when he requested custody - she was penniless. She was working two jobs and to be honest, I think in a way she was just too tired to fight anymore.
My brother never really knew his mother. He didn't know how funny she could be... how the sun made her skin the color of bronze. He didn't know how comforting it was to curl into her arms - or how green her thumb was - she could make anything grow. He didn't know how creative she was, how much she loved to read. He didn't know how much she loved spicy food. He didn't know how tender she was - or what a skilled artist she was. He just didn't know her at all.
But, after about third grade I didn't really know her anymore myself.
She remarried (round three if you're counting) and unfortunately I seem to have acquired her horrific taste in men. She met him at work, and was forced to resign her job because of a nepotism policy. Her marriage lasted only a few months before he started hitting her. She was madly in love with him, and stayed - hoping that he would love her the way she loved him. I remember coming home from my dad's house one Sunday and all the furniture in the house was gone. He had gotten drunk and literally smashed it all to pieces with an aluminum bat. When he was done with the furniture, he turned to her and used the bat on her face, and then he broke her arm. They never told me what happened. She lied and said they had decided to sell the furniture. The furniture we had just gotten not a month or two before. There were still shards of glass from the curio cabinets sunk deep into the plush carpet. I knew. The entire side of her face was black. I knew she didn't just fall. If there's one thing I didn't get from my mother it is my klutziness.
He started having an affair with another woman - with the same name as my mother. He broke her down, and made her believe she was worthless. He flaunted the affair. He pointed out her failings. He made fun of her in public. In order to deal with the broken bones [literally] she turned to other outlets for her pain. She started having an affair with alcohol.
I would find empty vodka bottles hidden in my closet amongst my sweaters. He moved out, and she moved on to prescription painkillers and alcohol together. Then it got worse. She started blacking out. We had to move out of our house and were forced to jump around from apt. to apt. I became the parent. I walked to the store and bought groceries. I walked to school. I think we lived on cheetos, pickles and bologna for about a month one time. I did the laundry. I wrote the checks for the rent (I didn't realize you had to have money in the bank for them to clear). I forged her name on my report cards. She was usually drunk by 10:30 in the morning. If she didn't drink she would have horrible seizures and hallucinate.
My father tried to get custody of me. I was afraid to go live with him, afraid of what would happen if she didn't have anyone to take care of her. She checked into detox. We had to go to family meetings and the therapist told me it was my fault. Me. The chubby little ten year old. It was my fault.
She got out, and I went back to live with her. She was sober maybe two or three days. We were living in a run down apartment across the street from the hospital. She started hallucinating, and woke me up in the middle of the night and threw me out of the house, locking the deadbolt behind me. I was barefoot in my nightgown, and it was snowing. I begged and pleaded with her to let me in. She thought I was the police -coming to arrest her. I didn't know what to do. I was afraid to walk through the ghetto to find a phone and it was so icy. I fell asleep on the porch, exhausted from shaking. She let me back in the next morning. She thought God was talking to her. She drove me to school shaking so bad from d.t.s that she could barely keep in the lane and dropped me off and started driving to a mental institution. They wouldn't admit her.
Over the next several months, she went back into treatment, and then out, and back in. This "program" was the most dysfunctional place she could have been. It's no wonder she didn't stop. The doctors were sleeping with the patients (I learned this from later reading her journal). She met a friend named Linda - who was in for alcohol and narcotics. They got out and we moved into a hotel with Linda for awhile because she was hiding from her husband. They started drinking and went on a huge buying binge at Macy's. I learned later that her husband finally found her. He killed her - and set her body on fire. She was buried in an unmarked grave.
On her last stint in the treatment facility, she met a man there who was in trying to recover from a heavy duty narcotics addiction. They started up a flaming romatic relationship while still hospitalized. When they got out, he moved in with us. And so did another addiction - cocaine. His brother was a dealer, and soon she was selling everything we had to feed the desperate need she had for more.
Aside from cocaine, he also had an affinity for other - more despicable - more frightening things. I would wake up in the middle of the night when he would come in my room - the hallway light outlining his shape. I tried to pretend to be asleep - hoping he would just leave me alone - my heart pounding with fear. Most of the time, he just sat there next to me. Occasionally he would lift the covers to absent mindedly stroke my feet. My heart pounding... I would pray... beseeching God to end this. My prayers went unanswered. I would cry softly into the pillows until he was done. He never said a single word.
I never told my mother what happened. I never told anyone. It was so horrible that in a way I thought that I had dreamed it up. I still shudder to this day when someone touches my feet. On the hottest nights, I still sleep with blankets on - afraid that even a part of my foot would poke out of the covers.
Finally - I had enough. She was passed out, and I went through the house and took every vodka bottle she had and stacked them on the coffee table. They were hidden in the plants, in the couch cushions, everywhere. I left a note - "this has to stop."
When she finally came to, she was infuriated. She was screaming at me - and I snapped. I slapped her hard across the face. So hard that it knocked her down. I was so full of rage - her addiction had stolen my childhood. She retailiated. It's the only time in my life that my mother ever hit me. She never even spanked me as a child.
My meager belongings had been packed for weeks in my closet. I told her I was moving in with my grandparents. She started throwing my boxes over the balcony into the parking lot below. She told me she didn't love me. That she never had.
I didn't talk to her for a long time. Without me to pay the bills on time, she was evicted. She lost her job, and bounced around sleeping on friend's couches, and then soon she had no one left to go to. Then she lived in her car. I didn't know if she was dead or alive.
She finally cleaned up. She stopped using on my 13th birthday. She stopped drinking soon after that - and has been clean and sober ever since. The beautiful glint in her eyes is gone. She is hollow now. Our relationship is still extremely strained. I love her - she is my mother after all. She doesn't remember about three years of what we went through. I do. I remember - but I forgive her. In a lot of ways, I think it's made me stronger. But there is a part of me that is still so angry.
I am afraid. I am afraid like other habits of hers that I have, such as the way I write, the hand gestures I make - that I will develop this addiction as well.
I had surgery on my hand this morning to repair a wound that isn't healing properly. The doctor told me to take 4 500 mg. of vicodin a day to ease the searing pain radiating up my arm. I don't even usually take tylenol. I'm too afraid to take this. Of the 20 pills he gave me last time, I've only taken a tiny portion of them - and only then when the pain was so bad that I thought I would black out - and then I would split the pills in half.
My hand is throbbing. But I wear the pain like a badge of honor. I have broken the cycle. I have managed to escape.
It could have been a lot worse.
As I mentioned before, my parents divorced when I was just a baby. At about age two my father remarried. My mother was desperately afraid that he would get custody of me (as she was a single parent) so she married - literally within a week - to her boyfriend at the time. It was not a good move on her part. She was so afraid of losing me that she did the only thing that she thought would save "us". To be honest, it was really the beginning of the end.
They fought - horribly. I remember after my brother was born, my stepfather beating her in the face, holding her down and spraying windex in her eyes. I remember cowering over my baby brother protecting him from the shards of glass that exploded off the wall when he threw an ashtray at her. I remember him sugaring her gas tank, breaking into the apartment when we moved out. I remember him kicking in our apartment door and taking my brother (then age 3 or so) away. We were watching Circus of the Stars, and it was so cold that night. We were curled up on the couch beneath a scratchy blue blanket with satin edging.
My mother was struggling to support us, and I know two children on her minimum wage salary must have made it nearly impossible to make ends meet. During their divorce, when he requested custody - she was penniless. She was working two jobs and to be honest, I think in a way she was just too tired to fight anymore.
My brother never really knew his mother. He didn't know how funny she could be... how the sun made her skin the color of bronze. He didn't know how comforting it was to curl into her arms - or how green her thumb was - she could make anything grow. He didn't know how creative she was, how much she loved to read. He didn't know how much she loved spicy food. He didn't know how tender she was - or what a skilled artist she was. He just didn't know her at all.
But, after about third grade I didn't really know her anymore myself.
She remarried (round three if you're counting) and unfortunately I seem to have acquired her horrific taste in men. She met him at work, and was forced to resign her job because of a nepotism policy. Her marriage lasted only a few months before he started hitting her. She was madly in love with him, and stayed - hoping that he would love her the way she loved him. I remember coming home from my dad's house one Sunday and all the furniture in the house was gone. He had gotten drunk and literally smashed it all to pieces with an aluminum bat. When he was done with the furniture, he turned to her and used the bat on her face, and then he broke her arm. They never told me what happened. She lied and said they had decided to sell the furniture. The furniture we had just gotten not a month or two before. There were still shards of glass from the curio cabinets sunk deep into the plush carpet. I knew. The entire side of her face was black. I knew she didn't just fall. If there's one thing I didn't get from my mother it is my klutziness.
He started having an affair with another woman - with the same name as my mother. He broke her down, and made her believe she was worthless. He flaunted the affair. He pointed out her failings. He made fun of her in public. In order to deal with the broken bones [literally] she turned to other outlets for her pain. She started having an affair with alcohol.
I would find empty vodka bottles hidden in my closet amongst my sweaters. He moved out, and she moved on to prescription painkillers and alcohol together. Then it got worse. She started blacking out. We had to move out of our house and were forced to jump around from apt. to apt. I became the parent. I walked to the store and bought groceries. I walked to school. I think we lived on cheetos, pickles and bologna for about a month one time. I did the laundry. I wrote the checks for the rent (I didn't realize you had to have money in the bank for them to clear). I forged her name on my report cards. She was usually drunk by 10:30 in the morning. If she didn't drink she would have horrible seizures and hallucinate.
My father tried to get custody of me. I was afraid to go live with him, afraid of what would happen if she didn't have anyone to take care of her. She checked into detox. We had to go to family meetings and the therapist told me it was my fault. Me. The chubby little ten year old. It was my fault.
She got out, and I went back to live with her. She was sober maybe two or three days. We were living in a run down apartment across the street from the hospital. She started hallucinating, and woke me up in the middle of the night and threw me out of the house, locking the deadbolt behind me. I was barefoot in my nightgown, and it was snowing. I begged and pleaded with her to let me in. She thought I was the police -coming to arrest her. I didn't know what to do. I was afraid to walk through the ghetto to find a phone and it was so icy. I fell asleep on the porch, exhausted from shaking. She let me back in the next morning. She thought God was talking to her. She drove me to school shaking so bad from d.t.s that she could barely keep in the lane and dropped me off and started driving to a mental institution. They wouldn't admit her.
Over the next several months, she went back into treatment, and then out, and back in. This "program" was the most dysfunctional place she could have been. It's no wonder she didn't stop. The doctors were sleeping with the patients (I learned this from later reading her journal). She met a friend named Linda - who was in for alcohol and narcotics. They got out and we moved into a hotel with Linda for awhile because she was hiding from her husband. They started drinking and went on a huge buying binge at Macy's. I learned later that her husband finally found her. He killed her - and set her body on fire. She was buried in an unmarked grave.
On her last stint in the treatment facility, she met a man there who was in trying to recover from a heavy duty narcotics addiction. They started up a flaming romatic relationship while still hospitalized. When they got out, he moved in with us. And so did another addiction - cocaine. His brother was a dealer, and soon she was selling everything we had to feed the desperate need she had for more.
Aside from cocaine, he also had an affinity for other - more despicable - more frightening things. I would wake up in the middle of the night when he would come in my room - the hallway light outlining his shape. I tried to pretend to be asleep - hoping he would just leave me alone - my heart pounding with fear. Most of the time, he just sat there next to me. Occasionally he would lift the covers to absent mindedly stroke my feet. My heart pounding... I would pray... beseeching God to end this. My prayers went unanswered. I would cry softly into the pillows until he was done. He never said a single word.
I never told my mother what happened. I never told anyone. It was so horrible that in a way I thought that I had dreamed it up. I still shudder to this day when someone touches my feet. On the hottest nights, I still sleep with blankets on - afraid that even a part of my foot would poke out of the covers.
Finally - I had enough. She was passed out, and I went through the house and took every vodka bottle she had and stacked them on the coffee table. They were hidden in the plants, in the couch cushions, everywhere. I left a note - "this has to stop."
When she finally came to, she was infuriated. She was screaming at me - and I snapped. I slapped her hard across the face. So hard that it knocked her down. I was so full of rage - her addiction had stolen my childhood. She retailiated. It's the only time in my life that my mother ever hit me. She never even spanked me as a child.
My meager belongings had been packed for weeks in my closet. I told her I was moving in with my grandparents. She started throwing my boxes over the balcony into the parking lot below. She told me she didn't love me. That she never had.
I didn't talk to her for a long time. Without me to pay the bills on time, she was evicted. She lost her job, and bounced around sleeping on friend's couches, and then soon she had no one left to go to. Then she lived in her car. I didn't know if she was dead or alive.
She finally cleaned up. She stopped using on my 13th birthday. She stopped drinking soon after that - and has been clean and sober ever since. The beautiful glint in her eyes is gone. She is hollow now. Our relationship is still extremely strained. I love her - she is my mother after all. She doesn't remember about three years of what we went through. I do. I remember - but I forgive her. In a lot of ways, I think it's made me stronger. But there is a part of me that is still so angry.
I am afraid. I am afraid like other habits of hers that I have, such as the way I write, the hand gestures I make - that I will develop this addiction as well.
I had surgery on my hand this morning to repair a wound that isn't healing properly. The doctor told me to take 4 500 mg. of vicodin a day to ease the searing pain radiating up my arm. I don't even usually take tylenol. I'm too afraid to take this. Of the 20 pills he gave me last time, I've only taken a tiny portion of them - and only then when the pain was so bad that I thought I would black out - and then I would split the pills in half.
My hand is throbbing. But I wear the pain like a badge of honor. I have broken the cycle. I have managed to escape.
It could have been a lot worse.
Sunday, January 23, 2005
Not enough.
I need to add about sixty hours to today in order to get everything I need to done. Aren't weekends supposed to be for relaxation? There's a cold front coming in today - and the weather may actually get down into the low 40s - as a HIGH tomorrow. That's unheard of here. In my four years as a Floridian, I don't remember it ever being that cold. And yes, I realize in the grand scheme of things, it's not really cold. But you get used to the constant 70-80 degree weather. You get used to not owning a coat. I gave away most of my sweaters when I moved here. My best friend's lives about three blocks away and her house doesn't even have heat in it, which is actually pretty typical in my neighborhood.
Yesterday I cleaned house so I could lounge around on the beach or go fishing in the everglades today. And of course, today it's grey and overcast.
Sigh. Why can't I just make time stand still for a little while?
I slept hard last night - aside from the crazy dreams about a hockey awards ceremony and people I haven't seen in years. I slept a good ten hours or more and yet, I think it only made me more tired.
I feel hollow today - disconnected from my life - almost as if I am going through the motions but not really here.
I think I need to go get some more coffee.
Yesterday I cleaned house so I could lounge around on the beach or go fishing in the everglades today. And of course, today it's grey and overcast.
Sigh. Why can't I just make time stand still for a little while?
I slept hard last night - aside from the crazy dreams about a hockey awards ceremony and people I haven't seen in years. I slept a good ten hours or more and yet, I think it only made me more tired.
I feel hollow today - disconnected from my life - almost as if I am going through the motions but not really here.
I think I need to go get some more coffee.
Friday, January 21, 2005
Frustration
Alex, my cat, is sacked out on the loveseat - and considering he ways over 20 pounds, he takes up quite a bit of it.
I'm on the couch - trying to finish up drafting a project I need for tomorrow a.m. (although I realize it's now 3 a.m.). The cat is obviously dreaming. He's alternating making little sucking sounds and SNORING. l.o.u.d.l.y. I didn't know cats snored.
Even the damn cat gets a good nights sleep and relaxing dreams.
And whoever *ahem* left the kind comment *ahem* that I just need to *ahem* , well I couldn't agree more.
I'm on the couch - trying to finish up drafting a project I need for tomorrow a.m. (although I realize it's now 3 a.m.). The cat is obviously dreaming. He's alternating making little sucking sounds and SNORING. l.o.u.d.l.y. I didn't know cats snored.
Even the damn cat gets a good nights sleep and relaxing dreams.
And whoever *ahem* left the kind comment *ahem* that I just need to *ahem* , well I couldn't agree more.
Thursday, January 20, 2005
Drowning
My parents divorced when I was just a few months old, and I spent a few weeks every summer with my dad and stepmother. They lived out aways from town, and in the sweltering Texas heat I would wake up - go to vacation Bible school (even though my parents didn't go to church they thought it important that the fear of God was instilled in me along with some silly songs, juice and cookies and a collection of crafts made from macaroni and popsicle sticks). After Bible school got out, we would pack up the car and drive... past open fields and rounding a bend my parent's bank on the left hand side (the "Cow Pasture Bank" - I couldn't make this up if I tried), and then past the dusty rodeo grounds. Coming around the bend next to a defunct miniature golf course was the YMCA swimming pool.
The scent of clorine heavy in the air, I was holding on to the side of the pool in the 3 ft. shallow area. The instructor told us to put our faces in the water and practice blowing bubbles. Face down, I blew bubbles in succession - small ones that felt like feathers crossing my lips and larger ones that popped audibly at the surface. Then, my lungs depleted of air, I inhaled. As water started filling my lungs I choked. They pulled me up over the edge and bent me over as I coughed the water out of my lungs. Shaking, they wrapped me in my towel, and made me sit at the edge of the pool.
By the end of the week, my skin smattered with freckles, they couldn't get me out of the water. I loved the feeling of buoyancy. I loved everything about being there -the feel of the rough concrete and the smooth tile of the pool on my feet, the smell of the copious amounts of sunscreen my stepmother smothered on me, the way the water felt so cool in the heat.
Going over family pictures this past holiday - I noticed how many were of me in or near the water. Barely walking and chewing on the handle of a sand pail on the side of the lake; strutting in a new red yellow and blue ruffled bikini at about age 5 (my father was NOT happy with that purchase) that my grandmother bought me at the upscale children's store on the square; peeking my head above water in a plastic children's pool beneath my grandmother's pear trees...
I became quite a skilled swimmer with time. Excellent off the high dive, I could walk across the entire pool in a perfect handstand. Since my mother and I lived in apartments much of my childhood, I had ready access to the pool, and spent almost every waking minute there.
However, in the midst of this love has always been an irrational fear of drowning. I have never lost that moment of fear when I could feel the water filling my lungs.
When I was about nine my dad was transferred to California. I spent the entire summer there, and my little sister and I made giant sand castles. Rocky crags jutted out from the waves. She was too little to go out, but Dad and I swam all day. My stepmother was pregnant, and stayed watching Daph on the beach. We were out pretty far when suddenly the tide changed. At first I thought I had my leg caught in a kelp bed, but I got sucked under quickly - and the rush of the water knocked the wind out of me. When I finally surfaced, I couldn't see our bright beach towels on the sand. I was bleeding from being dragged over the rocks. Dad swam up and carried me into shore. My stomach was upset from drinking all the ocean water, and the cuts burned from the salt - but I was fine.
In high school a guy I didn't know very well invited me over for a swim. I went - and when he made an advance that I refused, he grabbed me - forcing me underwater... holding me there as I tried not to breathe... with his other hand, he ripped my swimsuit top, and as I fought to get my hand over the edge of the pool to get out he burned me with a cigarette. I still have that little round scar on my right hand. I finally broke free and swam to the end of the pool, got out - grabbed my clothes - still dripping wet - crying I walked home.
In high school and college I dated a man whose family owned nearly two thousand acres deep in the Hill Country. Crystal clear streams sprung up from the limestone, and we would spend hours there fishing and swimming - careful to avoid water mocassins. There was a section of the creek about a football field wide, where the water had carved deep pools in the limestone - the "tubs" as we called them. Our clothes discarded on the mossy rocks, he and I would sit out there with the water running over our bare skin - watching the wildlife and listening to the waterfalls. The woman who lived in the property behind the creek slipped on the rocks and was found - drowned - in only four inches of water. She had just bought a new house in town and filed for divorce. Her husband found her. An accidental death was the coroner's conclusion.
When I moved to Florida my first apartment was a penthouse on the sixteenth floor overlooking the Intercoastal Waterway. From my balcony, I would watch rowing teams, and occasionally a manatee or manta ray swim through the channel. On Independence Day - my three sisters and I spent the entire day in the ocean - playing in the waves. Our skin wrinkled we watched the fireworks explode off the barges. Reluctantly at about ten we finally came on shore for birthday cake. We could have spent their whole vacation in the water.
Snorkeling off Key Largo -the Christ of the Deep covered in fire coral and the choppy water obscured the view of the small sharks circling beneath me. Then - off the coast of St. John, in the crystalline water we watched squid and rays dart beneath us. Snorkeling out to Lemon Cay - a large shark - perhaps eight feet long swam directly beneath me - so close that I could have reached out my arms and touched it. My breath stopped... and I instantly shot my head up, trying to find the shore. The sound of the water breaking made the shark turn, and swimming as hard and as fast as I could, I ran up the beach - collapsing into a heap beneath a sea grape tree.
The shark encounters made me leery of water. I don't go in now, unless it's in a pool. It was I guess those experiences that revived the fear of drowning, I don't know.
Last night, while in my yoga class, we were laying on our backs, the lights darkened, instructed to feel our bodies floating... controlling our breathing I sort of slipped off into a 'zen' state of peace.
I saw myself in a white sundress, the gauzy fabric billowing out in the water, the water caressing my skin. Sunlight filtered slowly through the depths of the water, and I realized I was drowning. I bolted upright in class with a scream caught in the back of my throat. So much for relaxation.
I finally slept last night, but all night I dreamed about water. All night... and this morning I was almost afraid I would wake up with water still lingering in my lungs.
The scent of clorine heavy in the air, I was holding on to the side of the pool in the 3 ft. shallow area. The instructor told us to put our faces in the water and practice blowing bubbles. Face down, I blew bubbles in succession - small ones that felt like feathers crossing my lips and larger ones that popped audibly at the surface. Then, my lungs depleted of air, I inhaled. As water started filling my lungs I choked. They pulled me up over the edge and bent me over as I coughed the water out of my lungs. Shaking, they wrapped me in my towel, and made me sit at the edge of the pool.
By the end of the week, my skin smattered with freckles, they couldn't get me out of the water. I loved the feeling of buoyancy. I loved everything about being there -the feel of the rough concrete and the smooth tile of the pool on my feet, the smell of the copious amounts of sunscreen my stepmother smothered on me, the way the water felt so cool in the heat.
Going over family pictures this past holiday - I noticed how many were of me in or near the water. Barely walking and chewing on the handle of a sand pail on the side of the lake; strutting in a new red yellow and blue ruffled bikini at about age 5 (my father was NOT happy with that purchase) that my grandmother bought me at the upscale children's store on the square; peeking my head above water in a plastic children's pool beneath my grandmother's pear trees...
I became quite a skilled swimmer with time. Excellent off the high dive, I could walk across the entire pool in a perfect handstand. Since my mother and I lived in apartments much of my childhood, I had ready access to the pool, and spent almost every waking minute there.
However, in the midst of this love has always been an irrational fear of drowning. I have never lost that moment of fear when I could feel the water filling my lungs.
When I was about nine my dad was transferred to California. I spent the entire summer there, and my little sister and I made giant sand castles. Rocky crags jutted out from the waves. She was too little to go out, but Dad and I swam all day. My stepmother was pregnant, and stayed watching Daph on the beach. We were out pretty far when suddenly the tide changed. At first I thought I had my leg caught in a kelp bed, but I got sucked under quickly - and the rush of the water knocked the wind out of me. When I finally surfaced, I couldn't see our bright beach towels on the sand. I was bleeding from being dragged over the rocks. Dad swam up and carried me into shore. My stomach was upset from drinking all the ocean water, and the cuts burned from the salt - but I was fine.
In high school a guy I didn't know very well invited me over for a swim. I went - and when he made an advance that I refused, he grabbed me - forcing me underwater... holding me there as I tried not to breathe... with his other hand, he ripped my swimsuit top, and as I fought to get my hand over the edge of the pool to get out he burned me with a cigarette. I still have that little round scar on my right hand. I finally broke free and swam to the end of the pool, got out - grabbed my clothes - still dripping wet - crying I walked home.
In high school and college I dated a man whose family owned nearly two thousand acres deep in the Hill Country. Crystal clear streams sprung up from the limestone, and we would spend hours there fishing and swimming - careful to avoid water mocassins. There was a section of the creek about a football field wide, where the water had carved deep pools in the limestone - the "tubs" as we called them. Our clothes discarded on the mossy rocks, he and I would sit out there with the water running over our bare skin - watching the wildlife and listening to the waterfalls. The woman who lived in the property behind the creek slipped on the rocks and was found - drowned - in only four inches of water. She had just bought a new house in town and filed for divorce. Her husband found her. An accidental death was the coroner's conclusion.
When I moved to Florida my first apartment was a penthouse on the sixteenth floor overlooking the Intercoastal Waterway. From my balcony, I would watch rowing teams, and occasionally a manatee or manta ray swim through the channel. On Independence Day - my three sisters and I spent the entire day in the ocean - playing in the waves. Our skin wrinkled we watched the fireworks explode off the barges. Reluctantly at about ten we finally came on shore for birthday cake. We could have spent their whole vacation in the water.
Snorkeling off Key Largo -the Christ of the Deep covered in fire coral and the choppy water obscured the view of the small sharks circling beneath me. Then - off the coast of St. John, in the crystalline water we watched squid and rays dart beneath us. Snorkeling out to Lemon Cay - a large shark - perhaps eight feet long swam directly beneath me - so close that I could have reached out my arms and touched it. My breath stopped... and I instantly shot my head up, trying to find the shore. The sound of the water breaking made the shark turn, and swimming as hard and as fast as I could, I ran up the beach - collapsing into a heap beneath a sea grape tree.
The shark encounters made me leery of water. I don't go in now, unless it's in a pool. It was I guess those experiences that revived the fear of drowning, I don't know.
Last night, while in my yoga class, we were laying on our backs, the lights darkened, instructed to feel our bodies floating... controlling our breathing I sort of slipped off into a 'zen' state of peace.
I saw myself in a white sundress, the gauzy fabric billowing out in the water, the water caressing my skin. Sunlight filtered slowly through the depths of the water, and I realized I was drowning. I bolted upright in class with a scream caught in the back of my throat. So much for relaxation.
I finally slept last night, but all night I dreamed about water. All night... and this morning I was almost afraid I would wake up with water still lingering in my lungs.
Wednesday, January 19, 2005
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
I didn't get home from the gym last night until around 11. A lot of times, the only way that I can kick an ongoing bout of insomnia is to physically exhaust myself. My best friend joined my gym yesterday, and she and I are incredibly competitive. No surprise considering that she actually dated my husband (quite seriously) before I met either of them. But that's a whole different drama. And trust me, DRAMA it is.
She was on the treadmill next to me and everytime I upped the speed, she upped hers just a little more. This pattern went on all night - the elliptical, the cross ramp, the stair stepper, etc. but it was good for me in a way.
Standing in the shower with the water cranked as hot as it would go, I rested my head against the cool tile and fell asleep. Wonderful sweet sleep, made only slightly problematic by the fact that well - I was in the shower.
Throwing my wet hair into a ponytail I vaguely remember drying off and slipping into bed confident that I would be able to sleep soundly all night.
The streetlamp at the edge of the front yard shines through the wooden blinds, smattering the deep bluebonnet hued walls with dusky yellow light. Even in the middle of the night I can still plainly make out the jagged edges of the dresser and the transparent perfume bottles on their silver tray.
My house is old, the bedroom windows archaic contraptions that crank open in three panels. There are no screens but sometimes I open them in the winter, letting the cool breeze in. The cold spell that hit this past weekend made me close them.
At about 2:30 - it sounded as if someone was trying to break into the window directly over my headboard. I woke up instantly, my body racked with fear when I realized it was so dark that I literally couldn't see my hand before my face. The heavy damask curtains I bought this weekend were blocking out so much light. M. peeked out the window and said all was well. He rolled over and started snoring immediately. Go back to sleep he muttered.
I slipped out of bed and turned on all the lights in the house. By this time I was shaking - from nerves and cold. I turned the heater on and curled up on the couch trying to calm the incessant pounding in my chest.
At about 4 I finally went to bed. I laid there, mulling over assundried fears and regrets that one is only comfortable confronting in the deep of night. Clutching my pillow tightly, I drifted off around 5:30. At 6:30 the alarm went off. Then at 6:39, then 6:48. It's piercing wail interrupted the dream I was having. A pity really.
I had to meet a client for breakfast at 7:30. I had to get up.
Sighing, I threw the duvet off and plopped my feet down on the hardwood floor and promptly cut my foot on a sliver of glass.
Twenty bucks says I don't sleep tonight.
She was on the treadmill next to me and everytime I upped the speed, she upped hers just a little more. This pattern went on all night - the elliptical, the cross ramp, the stair stepper, etc. but it was good for me in a way.
Standing in the shower with the water cranked as hot as it would go, I rested my head against the cool tile and fell asleep. Wonderful sweet sleep, made only slightly problematic by the fact that well - I was in the shower.
Throwing my wet hair into a ponytail I vaguely remember drying off and slipping into bed confident that I would be able to sleep soundly all night.
The streetlamp at the edge of the front yard shines through the wooden blinds, smattering the deep bluebonnet hued walls with dusky yellow light. Even in the middle of the night I can still plainly make out the jagged edges of the dresser and the transparent perfume bottles on their silver tray.
My house is old, the bedroom windows archaic contraptions that crank open in three panels. There are no screens but sometimes I open them in the winter, letting the cool breeze in. The cold spell that hit this past weekend made me close them.
At about 2:30 - it sounded as if someone was trying to break into the window directly over my headboard. I woke up instantly, my body racked with fear when I realized it was so dark that I literally couldn't see my hand before my face. The heavy damask curtains I bought this weekend were blocking out so much light. M. peeked out the window and said all was well. He rolled over and started snoring immediately. Go back to sleep he muttered.
I slipped out of bed and turned on all the lights in the house. By this time I was shaking - from nerves and cold. I turned the heater on and curled up on the couch trying to calm the incessant pounding in my chest.
At about 4 I finally went to bed. I laid there, mulling over assundried fears and regrets that one is only comfortable confronting in the deep of night. Clutching my pillow tightly, I drifted off around 5:30. At 6:30 the alarm went off. Then at 6:39, then 6:48. It's piercing wail interrupted the dream I was having. A pity really.
I had to meet a client for breakfast at 7:30. I had to get up.
Sighing, I threw the duvet off and plopped my feet down on the hardwood floor and promptly cut my foot on a sliver of glass.
Twenty bucks says I don't sleep tonight.
Tuesday, January 18, 2005
Help wanted
One secretary who is willing to answer my calls, not shop all day on the internet when I've asked him/her to do something, who actually calls to tell me when s/he will not be in the office, and will generally make my life easier - and not more difficult would be greatly appreciated.
And s/he should also be capable of doing my filing, making travel arragements for me, take messages from clients and not tell them "that {I} am obviously not in the office or {I} would have answered my own damn phone."
Salary and benefits negotiable depending on experience.
Any interested applicants please apply - as I am at the end of my rope.
And s/he should also be capable of doing my filing, making travel arragements for me, take messages from clients and not tell them "that {I} am obviously not in the office or {I} would have answered my own damn phone."
Salary and benefits negotiable depending on experience.
Any interested applicants please apply - as I am at the end of my rope.
Thursday, January 13, 2005
Sigh.
I'm having a craptacular day. I've been up since 4 a.m. and at work since 6. For most people that's not unusual, but for me it's a sure sign of the pending apocalypse - as I usually stroll in between 10 and 11 a.m.
I'm tired... cranky... and just kind of in an overall bad mood (which is highly unlike me). So, in order to force myself to cheer up, I must think of the "good things" in life:
Favorite Beverages:
Beer: Just one? Guinness. Perhaps Tucher in the summer with a big wedge of lemon. Ohhhh - and when I can get it Boulevard Unfiltered Wheat. Yum - or a black and blue made with Coal Porter and Bar Harbor Blueberry Ale (http://www.atlanticbrewing.com/ Or - Blue Moon Belgian White (which sadly I realize is a Coors product now). The problem is that most American beers are like having sex in a canoe* (of course tasty treats like Shiner Bock are excepted). The only generalized exception to that is Budweiser. It must be cold very cold - but God it's great at a baseball game - but there only. I love tasting new beers - and thus one of my favorite parts of Christmas Day was spending time at the Flying Saucer in downtown Ft. Worth. The only kind of beer I really don't enjoy are I.P.A.s unless the hops are extremely smooth. But generally speaking, I'm much more of an oatmeal stout/porter kind of girl.
Wine: Hmm. Other than the fact that I hate chardonnay, I don't really care. I love deep full cabs, and merlots that melt on the tongue, and shiraz too - even a pinot grigio occasionally.
Mixed Drink: Hmmm, lately it's been a dirty (dirty dirty - almost raunchy) martini with a blue cheese or jalapeno stuffed olive or two.
Non-alcohol: Probably pineapple juice - or unsweetened iced tea. Although - I must admit that I hate the expression "unsweetened" - it implies that the tea was sweet, and that the sugar was removed.
Favorite Flowers: Where do I start? If I wasn't an attorney I would be a botanist. Roses - but deep yellows with red blushed tips - or my favorite a "sunset" rose - which is creamy peach with yellow and red. Irises - which I cannot grow here. Daffodils and tulips (also can't grow here - but wow were they beautiful in Seattle in the spring). Hyacinths, orchids, bluebonnets... buttercups (which also don't grow here - even if they are weeds, I miss them).
Other things I love (in no particular order): christmas lights (old school multicolor or plain white - but never mixed); cuban foot silk stockings and black lace garters; dancing; brie; fishing (fresh water predominately - but deep sea too); begniets and chicory coffee with jazz in New Orelans; vintage hats; curling up with a good book on a rainy day; flannel sheets; the earthy smell of feed stores; towels warm from the dryer; hearing children laugh; the smell of a good garlicky marinara sauce; old Quebec; waterfalls (one of the most beautiful I've ever seen was hiking in the mountains of New Hampshire); horseback riding; the soft underside of my cat's belly; sparkly costume jewelery from the 1940s; baking bread/pastries; sleeping on the beach; morning glories; velvet; men with accents; waterford crystal; getting a massage; and fresh pineapple and peaches that leave sticky rivulets of juice all over you.
I feel better already.
*Fucking close to water.
I'm tired... cranky... and just kind of in an overall bad mood (which is highly unlike me). So, in order to force myself to cheer up, I must think of the "good things" in life:
Favorite Beverages:
Beer: Just one? Guinness. Perhaps Tucher in the summer with a big wedge of lemon. Ohhhh - and when I can get it Boulevard Unfiltered Wheat. Yum - or a black and blue made with Coal Porter and Bar Harbor Blueberry Ale (http://www.atlanticbrewing.com/ Or - Blue Moon Belgian White (which sadly I realize is a Coors product now). The problem is that most American beers are like having sex in a canoe* (of course tasty treats like Shiner Bock are excepted). The only generalized exception to that is Budweiser. It must be cold very cold - but God it's great at a baseball game - but there only. I love tasting new beers - and thus one of my favorite parts of Christmas Day was spending time at the Flying Saucer in downtown Ft. Worth. The only kind of beer I really don't enjoy are I.P.A.s unless the hops are extremely smooth. But generally speaking, I'm much more of an oatmeal stout/porter kind of girl.
Wine: Hmm. Other than the fact that I hate chardonnay, I don't really care. I love deep full cabs, and merlots that melt on the tongue, and shiraz too - even a pinot grigio occasionally.
Mixed Drink: Hmmm, lately it's been a dirty (dirty dirty - almost raunchy) martini with a blue cheese or jalapeno stuffed olive or two.
Non-alcohol: Probably pineapple juice - or unsweetened iced tea. Although - I must admit that I hate the expression "unsweetened" - it implies that the tea was sweet, and that the sugar was removed.
Favorite Flowers: Where do I start? If I wasn't an attorney I would be a botanist. Roses - but deep yellows with red blushed tips - or my favorite a "sunset" rose - which is creamy peach with yellow and red. Irises - which I cannot grow here. Daffodils and tulips (also can't grow here - but wow were they beautiful in Seattle in the spring). Hyacinths, orchids, bluebonnets... buttercups (which also don't grow here - even if they are weeds, I miss them).
Other things I love (in no particular order): christmas lights (old school multicolor or plain white - but never mixed); cuban foot silk stockings and black lace garters; dancing; brie; fishing (fresh water predominately - but deep sea too); begniets and chicory coffee with jazz in New Orelans; vintage hats; curling up with a good book on a rainy day; flannel sheets; the earthy smell of feed stores; towels warm from the dryer; hearing children laugh; the smell of a good garlicky marinara sauce; old Quebec; waterfalls (one of the most beautiful I've ever seen was hiking in the mountains of New Hampshire); horseback riding; the soft underside of my cat's belly; sparkly costume jewelery from the 1940s; baking bread/pastries; sleeping on the beach; morning glories; velvet; men with accents; waterford crystal; getting a massage; and fresh pineapple and peaches that leave sticky rivulets of juice all over you.
I feel better already.
*Fucking close to water.
Wednesday, January 12, 2005
Azure
My desk looks out over a bay and a number of islands and then at the horizon is the hazy blue of the Atlantic. There are deep boat channels in the water which from my perch thirty floors up make the water look as if indigo ink has been spilled haphazardly across the surface.
As I work, in my peripheral vision I am always watching the big sailboats and cruiseships meander toward the open ocean. Some days I sit mesmerized by the waves, watching pleasure boats kick up white surf in their wake.
Today the water is rough, and the sun is shining on the waves so that the sea looks like hammered silver.
I would miss this.
As I work, in my peripheral vision I am always watching the big sailboats and cruiseships meander toward the open ocean. Some days I sit mesmerized by the waves, watching pleasure boats kick up white surf in their wake.
Today the water is rough, and the sun is shining on the waves so that the sea looks like hammered silver.
I would miss this.
Tuesday, January 11, 2005
Deja Vu all over again.
I came back as a bag of groceries
Accidentally taken off the shelf
Before the date stamped on myself.
[Why this song is stuck in my head is beyond me. They might be, but it's more likely that they're not.]
Do you ever have those moments when you feel that you've done this all before, but perhaps only slightly differently? Are there times where you know what's going to happen before it does - or that you've known someone before you have even met them?
Maybe I keep having another go of it because I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong here. It's like playing a computer game and dying over and over again before you find out how to get to the next level. When am I going to run out of lives? Am I ever going to figure this out? Doesn't someone have the proper cheat code for this?
What then Yogi? What if I'm trapped here with Punxsutawney Phil every day? Will it always be all over again?
This existential noneseness is giving me a headache.
Accidentally taken off the shelf
Before the date stamped on myself.
[Why this song is stuck in my head is beyond me. They might be, but it's more likely that they're not.]
Do you ever have those moments when you feel that you've done this all before, but perhaps only slightly differently? Are there times where you know what's going to happen before it does - or that you've known someone before you have even met them?
Maybe I keep having another go of it because I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong here. It's like playing a computer game and dying over and over again before you find out how to get to the next level. When am I going to run out of lives? Am I ever going to figure this out? Doesn't someone have the proper cheat code for this?
What then Yogi? What if I'm trapped here with Punxsutawney Phil every day? Will it always be all over again?
This existential noneseness is giving me a headache.
Vultures, vultures everywhere.
I absolutely adore old movies. The type where cinematography and dialogue meant more than souped up special effects. In all honesty, I don't think that I could name ten movies in the last ten years that I've truly and completely loved. But ahhh, you throw in some good old Hitch, some popcorn and junior mints (which must be eaten together, btw, as in throw the junior mints into the hot popcorn. I know it sounds gross, and I didn't believe it either at first - but trust me. It's melty salty chocolately goodness).
Why aren't movies made like that anymore? Why is it that people now require the blatant sexual scenes? What happened to innuendo? Maybe I am just too oldfashioned - but I think it's inherently sexier to have the actual sex scene implied (a la West Side Story's scene with Maria and Tony) than to have the full-frontal porno-esque visual depiction.
Hitchcock could direct an entire movie virtually in one room/local (The Lady Vanishes - in the train; Rear Window - in Jeff's apt.; and Dial M for Murder - in the Wendice's apt.). You had actual character development, the plot was succinct and to the point, and I have loved all of those movies greatly.
Of course, perhaps my most loved older movie is Casablanca. Insomnia has set in again, and I was up watching it last night trying to fall asleep. Of course, I've never been able to reconcile whether when Ilsa returns to Rick to ask for the letters of transit if her spiel about still loving him is true, or if she is usuing her charm merely to manipulate him.
Since my insomnia seems to start in blocks, I have a feeling I'm going to be watching a lot of movies camped out on the loveseat this week. And as much as I love them, I would love to just be able to sleep for a change.
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I beg of you Monsieur, watch yourself. Be on guard. This place is full of Vultures. Vultures, vultures everywhere, everwhere.
Why aren't movies made like that anymore? Why is it that people now require the blatant sexual scenes? What happened to innuendo? Maybe I am just too oldfashioned - but I think it's inherently sexier to have the actual sex scene implied (a la West Side Story's scene with Maria and Tony) than to have the full-frontal porno-esque visual depiction.
Hitchcock could direct an entire movie virtually in one room/local (The Lady Vanishes - in the train; Rear Window - in Jeff's apt.; and Dial M for Murder - in the Wendice's apt.). You had actual character development, the plot was succinct and to the point, and I have loved all of those movies greatly.
Of course, perhaps my most loved older movie is Casablanca. Insomnia has set in again, and I was up watching it last night trying to fall asleep. Of course, I've never been able to reconcile whether when Ilsa returns to Rick to ask for the letters of transit if her spiel about still loving him is true, or if she is usuing her charm merely to manipulate him.
Since my insomnia seems to start in blocks, I have a feeling I'm going to be watching a lot of movies camped out on the loveseat this week. And as much as I love them, I would love to just be able to sleep for a change.
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I beg of you Monsieur, watch yourself. Be on guard. This place is full of Vultures. Vultures, vultures everywhere, everwhere.
Monday, January 03, 2005
Eighty degree snow.
bare flesh
terry cloth coaxing
out the dampness
terry cloth coaxing
out the dampness
five years,
or was it six?
frozen memories
melting, trickle slowly
melting, trickle slowly
carefully
tracing the path
fingers seared
later - did others
feel the deep grooves
november burned?
shaking out wet hair
back arched
trying to savor
trying to savor
the taste of vintage
snowflakes on my tongue
bare feet
on the ceramic tile
shivering
eighty degrees
and snow is falling.
and snow is falling.
Juxtaposition
An eclectic mess.
The traffic flow dances to the aboriginal rhytm seeping from beneath the concrete. I however, am not in tune with this rudimentary drumming. So I sing, loudly and offkey behind the safe confines of my rolled up windows. The strong thumping of a washboard infused with Zydeco spice. The soulful wail of Sarah Vaughn and Ella Fitzgerald echo against the glass. George Strait's Texas charm annoints my drive. The Smiths and Pink Floyd fuel my angst.
I am an eclectic mess. But I wouldn't have it any other way.
The traffic flow dances to the aboriginal rhytm seeping from beneath the concrete. I however, am not in tune with this rudimentary drumming. So I sing, loudly and offkey behind the safe confines of my rolled up windows. The strong thumping of a washboard infused with Zydeco spice. The soulful wail of Sarah Vaughn and Ella Fitzgerald echo against the glass. George Strait's Texas charm annoints my drive. The Smiths and Pink Floyd fuel my angst.
I am an eclectic mess. But I wouldn't have it any other way.
Saturday, January 01, 2005
Insomnia
Suffice it to say that the year is not starting well. It's 4:15 a.m., and insomnia has set in. The crickets are humming, their melancholy drone mitering out seconds, and minutes. Soon the sun will start to rise. It's impossible to dream in red when you are relegated to this. This - inbetween area where one is not quite awake, but not asleep either. When dawn breaks I will be able to fold myself into the comfort of the rays and drift off, I hope.
Maybe a walk on the beach will ease these thoughts of bluebonnets and belt buckles. Perhaps the crashing waves will absolve my soul of thoughts of fiddles and peaches and warm summer days with the sunlight dappled on my legs.
It's been a long time. I didn't realize I had missed Texas so much.
Maybe a walk on the beach will ease these thoughts of bluebonnets and belt buckles. Perhaps the crashing waves will absolve my soul of thoughts of fiddles and peaches and warm summer days with the sunlight dappled on my legs.
It's been a long time. I didn't realize I had missed Texas so much.